It is the dream that all of us have. To find a woman, and have her *so * into us that she becomes incapable of ever sleeping with anyone else ever again! She wants you – and only you! She loves everything about you, and not because you put on a front, but because you are exactly who you are. Now the truth is that this is impossible to achieve, no one will ever like another human so much that everything that they do is wonderful! It is just not possible. We are, after all, human. So how can we fill this fantasy of the woman who can never sleep with another? The key is to ruin her for another man! Here are my top tips to achieve this!
Get her to say your name when coming
There is no bigger turn off than having someone scream someone else’s name when they come. There is no faster way to get yourself kicked out of bed! If you were with someone and they started moaning another persons name, I don’t know a single person that wouldn’t have an issue with this. I had a friend who once was with a girl who when she came screamed “sister Mary Margret!”. Needless to say this was the last time he saw her – it was just a bit too weird.
So, tell the girl you are with that you really like it if they say your name when they come. After a bit they will get used to it, and it will become habit. Should she ever try and sleep with another – she may find this hampers her ability to make it last!
Be amazing in bed
This is a long term goal and there are no quick wins here, but it stands the test of time. Be amazing in bed and the girl you are with will rarely want to go elsewhere. This takes time and work, and I won’t cover it here. There is another article covering that. Just remember that being better in bed has both short and long term gains. Well worth the effort.
Give her some memorable moments
Our memories are not perfect. We do not remember each day that we live equally. Instead we remember the important moments, the big moments, the turning points. We defiantly remember the moments of strong emotions... and that is where you want to aim. Give the person some moments of strong emotion. This can be joy and fun (people often reminisce about their favourite moments in life!). This can also be other less thought about amotions such as fear – the first time you have sex outside it is the fear of being caught /shame etc that gives a lot of the emotion spike. Give her these moments and she will forever compare others to what she had with you. It will make you immortal in her mind.
Do some firsts
Firsts are an amazing option if you can find them . Everyone remembers their first kiss, right? Well if you can find some “firsts” that are yet untouched – do them. Go alternative if you want, first time being tied up, first time you used a sex toy, first time you d sex in a cupboard! Think alternative and you will find that there are a huge number of “firsts” waiting to be done. Do them!
You will notice that most of this revolves around sex. This is deliberate. So go forth and have sex!
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