“I met this guy through work. We’d seen each other at a few conferences and had chatted over coffee and lunch with other people. He was cute but I’d never seriously considered anything happening with him, mainly because I was married. Both of us felt the sexual tension but it was me that decided to do something about it. At one conference I’d had quite a few bottles of wine and ended up inviting him back to my hotel room. We started making out and things got hot and heavy pretty fast. I’d been married for 6 years and have always had good sex with my husband. But that was so...