Most of the members of F-Buddy have at some point or another either taken part in kinky sex or have at least considered it. However much you want to do something new, sexual or otherwise, these is always an initial trepidation attached to doing so. This is natural and nothing to be ashamed of but with sex it can be hard to share the burden with them and still maintain the sexual excitement through it.
So first thing to remember if you are worried about trying bondage for the first time, for example, is that you cannot be perfect the first time you try this new behaviour. You will need time and experience to get better and your partner will understand especially if you are honest about this being new for you.
It is worth remembering what you do enjoy about the experience even if it is not exactly how you imagined. Sexual drive and enjoyment is about being in the moment and feeling the presence of your partner so make sure not to get to much into your head and remember to enjoy seeing your partner in this new way, or even take enjoyment in the new way you have gotten closer to the person you would like to be in your mind's eye. You are now closer than you have even been to being who you want to be in the bedroom.
Don't avoid new sexual experiences just because you will not be able to pull it off perfectly. It is good to feel the feelings that you have and let them flow through you but do not let that stop you pushing yourself that extra mile. Remember that you will be happier if you have tried but not been perfect than if you never try at all.
Additionally do not take all of the strain yourself, sometimes it can feel like you cannot share with your partner when you are trying something new sexually but in reality if you are having trouble they will find it easier than having to wonder if it is something they have done which is worrying you. Also when you share what is hard for you then they may be able to help you. Here on F-Buddy you can meet a lot of experienced kinky people that can help you bring out your inner dom or sub.
Of all the things in your life that you must respect and care for your sex life is key among them. Too many people hold back from getting what they want in the bedroom due to fear. This is understandable and fear is a healthy and reasonable feeling but cannot be the reason to hold back from fulfilling your deepest desires.
So get going and find the perfect fuck buddy to share in your sexual adventures right here on F-Buddy. This is the time to live your dreams and meet someone (or some people) that want the same sexual experiences as you.
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