Why do sites like ours exist? Apart from the fact that we’re all sex addicts, we like to screw as many people as we can throughout our lives. Whether or not we actually do that rests solely down to how far we are each willing to go to sate our primal desires. Eventually if we desire, we settle with one sexual partner, but many of us are quite happy to fuck as many different people as possible for the rest of our lives. There’s no shame in admitting that.
But what is it about the casual nature of a fuck buddy relationship that makes it so appealing?
1. It’s new
We always get excited by new toys and a new fuck buddy is a bit like having a new toy to play with almost every day. We crave the new because it’s different and changes up the pace of our lives.
2. It’s different
Societal norm dictates that we should only have sex in a committed relationship, but swingers’ parties, one night stands and fuck buddies have been canoodling under society’s pious eyes for centuries. Casual sex is different to the norm, and human beings like nothing better than going against the norm.
3. There’s no commitment
You can choose to have sex as much or as little as you like. When you’re having sex with a fuck buddy there are no strings to worry about. You can just get some and get gone if you want. Being a free spirit is very appealing to most of us locked into daily routines. We just don’t want to admit it. Casual sex can be a way to break out of our routine.
4. You learn more
You learn a lot about what you like and don’t like in the bedroom and because there’s no commitment you don’t have to worry about what the other person might think of your sexual desires. Ironically this can go a long way in helping you find a long term partner if you want as you have the confidence to express yourself sexually. As a result you’re more likely to end up with someone who’s sexual preferences and desires are in tune with your own.
5. It gets you in touch with your emotions more effectively
Having casual sex actually teaches you a lot about yourself on an emotional level. Doing it helps you discover what you can handle and what you can’t. Even if you decide that it’s not for you, the fact that you’ve tried it has informed your emotional growth.
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