Whether you are meeting someone for the first time because you bumped into them in a street, you are at a work thing, or you are meeting a new potential fuck buddy for a drink, everyone sexually evaluates each other all the time. We can’t help it, we are wired to check! If you meet someone and you think you would sleep with them based on how they look, you know it before the first word is spoken. You also know it if you would *not* ever sleep with them immediately! In fact, being physically ugly or repulsive in some way can really affect your life from how you are treated at bus stops through to how easily you get jobs. So staying attractive is an important skill whether you are looking for a hook up not. One of the things that plays into it is how positive you are.
We all want to be happy
We all want to be happy, we all want to have good lives, with happy times and god days. It is as simple as that. The people that are around us can play a really big part in whether we are happy or not, they really affect our happiness levels, so we are naturally more attracted to people who smile a lot, who appear to be happy because emotions are infectious. This means that if you have a bright and sunny personality you are more attractive. Most definitely this is especially true for girls. Women that smile a lot are far more sexy than women who don’t! Girls who are bright and sunny, who are naturally happy come across like they would have a great time in bed and would make for a great fuck. If you are a man, it can be slightly different in the sexual market place. If you are a man ad you are quiet or not naturally prone to smiling, then you can come across as strong or solid and that can be seen as sexy in itself, so this is more important for women than men. Negativity is universal however.
Being negative will kill the desire for others to want to fuck you
If you are negative all the time, this will act to convince people that they really don’t want to fuck you however. It will act to put people off, to filter you out of the possible sexual partner list whether you are a man or a woman. Simple.
So if you are someone who is naturally negative all the time, it may be worth addressing the reasons behind it. Not only will you be happy more often for fixing it, but you will also get laid more, and that will actively work to make you happier!
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