Once you have found your f-buddy, generally after a meeting you will find yourself moving to the bedroom unusually quickly - quite often on the first date. Some of you may be used to this by now, but for some of the newer members of this website you may be less comfortable with going straight back and having sex the first time you meet someone.
One of the ways to make this more comfortable is having clear choices made about what you are going to do and how you are going to do it. In this article we are going to be looking at the different sexual positions and what they mean, in order to better put you in a position to choose.
The missionary position
This most traditional of sexual positions puts you in a place where you can see each other in the face. It has many advantages, you can see the other persons reactions and therefore in a first sex encounter it allows you to gauge the level of enjoyment or pleasure that they are getting from whatever you are doing.
It is also a more emotional position. By seeing each other face to face, by looking at each other in the eye the whole time it allows you to connect on a deeper level. This can be something you do want, it can also be something you may not want, and if so this position could be one that you actively choose to avoid for this reason.
Doggy Style
I have always felt that the name of this position did much to undermine its popularity, which is a real shame as it is a really good option to have in your repertoire of sexual positions. In this position you are not in any way looking at each other’s faces. It can make it less personal and less emotional. It can also physically mean that the penis can actually penetrate much deeper - which can result in stronger orgasms.
This is much more of a “Grr I want you I am going to take you / Grr I want you take me now” of a position. It can tap into / reflect a drive from a real carnal base desire, and can express both deep rooted desire for sex or the other person. This is generally always a good choice of position, as it also is likely to result in good sex.
The Results:
If you are concerned about performing well, want to be able to gauge what is going on with the other person or just take things a little slower - go missionary. However, if you are looking to get into some good sex and are feeling confident, go straight for doggy style.
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