Your sexual advances are a good thing, it says so in the title and it's bloody true. A lot of time and effort is put into telling us what we should not do when it comes to sexual encounters but there is almost nothing telling us how great our sexuality is and that we are actively going out and sharing our passionate lust with others. So today I will be the one to pat you all on the back for wanting sex and showing that to people and indeed tell you off for holding back and pretending you are some monk like character and then sheepishly masterbating in the corner in shame.
No you should be proud of who you are and share that loving pride with others, because shock horror every single human on the planet give or take feels the same sexual urges and wants to be loved physically and fucked hard by somebody like you.
I'm Not pretending sex is simple and that there are not painful events around sex regularly, this is of course true but is not caused by open sexuality, nor made worse in anyway. In fact the repression of feelings often is linked to the eventuality of many problems with sexual relationships, so the free flowing passion for sex is not a risk to anybody in anyway and can only lead to more mutual enjoyment.
There are situations where your sexuality should not be felt to be shameful but should all the same be restrained in respect to the realities of the circumstance. For example if you find somebody else extremely attractive but you can tell that they do not share your feelings, rather than continue to pursuit thir affections through friendly favours and dedication you should either tell them your hopes for the relationship and let them give you a final answer to your affection, or simply stop spending your time on them and give yourself space so that you do not make either of you feel uncomfortable. This is a hard situation for both of you and on both ends no one will get out without some emotional baggage, so it's best avoided in these cases.
So really it come down to an emotional honesty and a certain level of reality awareness when it comes to your relationships.
Your sexuality is great and not creepy and if you follow these rules you and those that you care for will be happier and more sexualy fulfilled.
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