Our lives have never been busier, and we have never had less time to do the important things in life, like get laid. Our routines leave us very little time for recreation and fun. We get up in the morning bleary eyed from our alarms, we brush our teeth and eat cold cereal as that’s the fast way to have breakfast. Then we travel on average for an hour to somewhere we don’t like, to do a job we are not passionate about, so that we can then spend an hour traveling back home, tired from the day and unable to do much else.
The time left to meet romantic and sexual partners has plummeted, it has never been lower. If are dating “normally” this makes getting laid even harder. You have to meet someone, date them for a whole evening, and even then you may not like the person. Even if you do, you likely have to do that a few times before you are going to sleep with them, which means that’s several weeks of your life gone, given the amount of time you have to do that is pretty low.
One way to speed this up, is to instant date. Here is how it works.
You meet someone that you fancy. This could be at work, at a meeting, whilst out with friends. It could also happen whilst shopping or even when walking down the street. So the traditional thing to do is to chat them up, take a number. The issue here that it is both slow, and they may never meet up with you. It is hard getting people to come out after a single meeting. So why wait?
Instead, take them on an instant date! This can be a quick coffee, a short walk, a half an hour sandwhich lunch. IT can be anything. If you are out of an evening, it can be a walk over to the juke box to play a tune, a move to the other side of the pub to look at a picture or put some money in the slots. It could be a move outside for a smoke. The key elements of an instant date are:
- Something where you move to a different location
- Something involving just the two of you
- You do it instantly there and then, you don’t wait for a “better” time, because the time is now.
If you have never done it, I highly recommend it! You’ll be surprised where this leaves you.
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