Why casual sex is exciting
Why do sites like ours exist? Apart from the fact that we’re all sex addicts, we like to screw as many people as we can throughout our lives. Whether or not we actually do that rests solely down to how far we are each willing to go to sate our primal desires. Eventually if we desire, we settle with one sexual partner, but many of us are quite happy to fuck as many different people as possible for the rest of our lives. There’s no shame in admitting that.
But what is it about the casual nature of a fuck buddy relationship that makes it so appealing?
1. It’s new...
How effective is sexy underwear?
So much has been written about this that it hardly seems worthwhile talking about it. However there are always unexplored aspects of the question. Basically we want to know what impact underwear has to the sexual drive of men and women (if any). We’re pretty sure we knew the answer from the off, but the results were still surprising.
What underwear does to the libido
If you’re just dressed in an old pair of boxers or a comfortable pair of granny pants, then the chances of creating some sexual excitement in the bedroom are slim to zero. You can get all hot...
How to maintain a fuck buddy relationship
It is possible to maintain a fuck buddy relationship longer then than the standard 3-6 months? Most people say no; a fuck buddy is generally a casual arrangement. Yet I know several people who maintain these causal arrangements for a lot longer then 6 months. One of my best friends has actually told me that she has been seeing a regular fuck buddy for over 2 years. They aren’t exclusive and they both see other people every now and then. They aren’t a couple and she actually said to me “I could never date him…he’s actually quite boring” but when it comes to sex, he pushes her buttons...
Can you become addicted to casual sex?
Sex like all things that feel good can be highly addictive. There’s a reason there are so many sex addiction clinics popping up globally. The film star Michael Douglas famously checked himself into sex addiction therapy when it began to affect his personal and professional life. Sex addiction has led to relational breakdowns and a lot of heartache and pain for the people involved. But what of casual sex addiction?
Casual sex? MORE MORE MORE!
There’s a point in everyone’s life when they suddenly realise that ‘Hey, I’m not a bad person and people are...
How do you know a good dating site from a bad one?
Someone asked me this question a few weeks ago having signed up to several dating sites. My honest answer was “…no one’s asked me that before! Let me have a think and get back to you.” It’s strange, but no one had asked me that question before! I just assumed that all dating sites were fair game and that one was pretty much like another.
Yet when I did think about it, I realised there are some subtle yet distinct differences between the bad dating sites and the good ones. My conclusions are below. Let me know if you agree or disagree by emailing us.
Bad Dating...
5 Reasons to have casual sex for women
A great deal is made of only men wanting a no strings attached sexual relationship, yet women enjoy sex as much as men do. They also want sex often as much as men do and sometimes more. We know because we asked several women who enjoy casual sex. We also asked them to think of why they enjoy it and why they think all women should enjoy casual sex at some point in their lives.
1. It’s fun and relaxing
Why do we have sex? Mainly because it’s fun. If you’re not having fun when you’re having sex then you’re either not doing it right or you’re doing it with...
Is having a fuck buddy worth it?
Casual sex gets a lot of stick in mainstream media. It's often cited as the reason for a whole generation's moral decline. Apparently we're all so interested in hopping into bed with complete strangers that we're unable to form any kind of intimate emotional connection with another person. Whilst an argument can be made in support of that assertion, there are counter arguments which show casual sex can indeed help people at certain times. Indeed having a fuck buddy for a period of time can be instrumental in helping you maintain a long term relationship with another person. By being...
How do you know when a fuck buddy has become something more?
At face value this is quite a simple question. In practise we all know that it is a little more complicated than that. Having sex the first time with anyone is always exciting, and lust takes over from rational emotion. However there are some tell tell signs which should help you determine whether or not relationship has become more then sex, or if it is just sex.
1. The Morning After
There are massive schools of thought who suggest that in order to maintain a long term casual sex relationship; you must never under any circumstances allow your fuck buddy to...
The Power Of Self Esteem Part 4: Love Yourself
We've covered 2 of the three parts of getting yourself the sex life that you desire through the power of self esteem but today we are landing at the core of this topic and that is truly learning to accept who you are and loving yourself for who you are and being thankful for how awesome you and your life is.
This is a tough task for many to achieve though because we have so many ways to find out how insufficient we are in so many different ways in this day and age. You can look and find people that are a thousand times better at pretty much anything than you in an instant and that's...
The Power Of Self Esteem Part 3: Your Sexual Advances are a Good Thing
Your sexual advances are a good thing, it says so in the title and it's bloody true. A lot of time and effort is put into telling us what we should not do when it comes to sexual encounters but there is almost nothing telling us how great our sexuality is and that we are actively going out and sharing our passionate lust with others. So today I will be the one to pat you all on the back for wanting sex and showing that to people and indeed tell you off for holding back and pretending you are some monk like character and then sheepishly masterbating in the corner in shame.
No you...