The only way to get sex is to take action

You know that moment where you see someone and you really like the look of them – infact lets just take it as read that you see them you decide that you most definitely want to fuck them. I mean they look just your type, and all you want to do is grab them, throw them against a wall and give them a good seeing to? Well the only way to make this happen is to take action. This may seem rather obvious to say, but so many times action is not taken, and you end up where you started regardless because you have failed to do anything to make it happen. Let me break it down for you.

What holds you back from sex – fear

So the first thing is to recognise that the thing that is holding you back from taking action, from doing anything about your desire to sleep with a particular woman is fear. This could be any of the following

• Fear of failure
• Fear of rejection
• Fear of retribution from another man
• Fear of success (fear that it will work out!)
• Fear of not knowing what to say or do
• Fear that we are crap in bed
• Fear of having to deal with the follow on of rejection
• Fear of having to deal with the follow on of success

The list of fears is pretty huge! So how can you combat the fear that will inevitably fill you and paralise your ability to get what you want? You have to recognise that the ONLY way to have any chance of being successful is to take action. Let’s run this as a scenario.

The model to free yourself from fear

The goal is that you like the look of a girl and you would like to sleep with her. What you have to do in order to achieve this is to hit on her. There are three possible scenarios that we are going to model here:

• Scenario 1: You don’t hit on her, so nothing happens and you fail to sleep with here. You lose.
• Scenario 2: You hit on her and you are rejected and thus fail to sleep with her. You lose.
• Scenario 3: You hit on her, she loves it and immediately comes back to yours, you have sex. You win.

So there are 3 options here, and the only one that guarantees failure is the first one. The only way to have a chance to win is to take action and hit on her. You still might fail, but it is the only way to be in for a chance to get laid.

So always take action – it is the only way to have any possibility of getting laid. Go forth and hit on girls!